poem in hindi

Maine teer banaye teen

Maine teer banaye teen

Do to toot hi gaye

Ek ki nok hi nahi

Jiski nok hi nahi use maare sher teen

Do to bhag hi gaye

Ek ka pata hi nahi

Jiska pata hi nahi

Usko ghere nadiyan teen

Do to sukhe hi sahi

Ek me paani hi nahi

Jisme paani hi nahi

Usme taire naav teen

Do to doob hi gaye

Ek ka naavik hi nahi

Jiska naavik hi nahi

Usme baithe mendak teen

Do to andhe hi sahi

Ek ki aankh hi nahi

Jiski aankh hi nahi

Usko mare teer teen

Do to toot hi gaye

Ek kin ok hi nahi ……………………………………..continues 

Breakup is NOT the solution

I have seen girls and guys complaining about their partners for being busy all the time. This lack of communication plays an important role in many breakups. Friends if you are in any kind of relationship, it does not mean you are bound to that. Relationship does not mean talking with your partner all the time. Every person needs some freedom. If your partner is busy in some work you should support him with that instead of complaining because you never know the situation from which he or she may be going through. He/she may have his/her own desires, dreams and works. Relationship does not mean avoiding all this and being with your partner all the time. If a relation has no freedom it becomes suffocating after some time which leads to misunderstanding, fights and ultimately breakups. Friends, breakup is not the solution. If you are in a relation, you should understand the needs of your partner. You should understand his/her feelings. You should support your partner with his/her dreams. You need not to feel insecure if you trust him/her. REMEMBER DON’T MAKE ANY RELATION WITH ANYONE UNTIL YOU TRUST THAT PERSON COMPLETELY. If your partner does not give you enough time then at least you give him/her time.

Do not doubt on your partner. If your partner is too much busy, yes then you can ask him/her the reason, if he/she truly loves you he will tell you. Don’t worry relationships are there to make you happy and your life exciting. If you are unhappy, weeping and insecure it means there is some problem but breakup is not the solution. Breakup will break your heart, your trust on other people and will show you hell on earth. TRUST, RESPECT, LOVE AND COMMUNICATION are the four important things for a good love life. Be mature, take mature decisions and be happy. God bless you all.

WHY PARENTS DON'T SUPPORT ????

Why parents don’t support??

Ok so let me be more clear. I am talking about those children who want to do something in their life but their parents don’t support them and just because parents don’t support many people are unsuccessful and have been cheated. As most of the parents want their child to become doctors, engineers and anything related to their studies and most of the children want to become anything which is in a totally different  field, this behavior of parents are very common. And this case arises mostly when the child wants to become actor, dancer, singer, painter, model, journalist, fashion designer, photographer etc or if the child wants to go abroad for studies or job. In these cases most of the parents don’t support their child.

Particularly in case when the children want to become something which is different from studies, they have to face a lot of criticism from their parents many a times. Most of the parents believe that there is no career in these fields or these fields are not enough respected. Many parents say that they have utilized their money in studies so their child should not do anything other than studies? Many say that they don’t want to send their child abroad because he will be distracted from his path. Journalism is avoided because it is dangerous. Most of the parents say that their child must not suffer any difficulties in life so they don’t allow their children to do struggleful job. Many parents say that if their child wants to do any job which is not related to studies, then why he/she is wasting their money in studies?????  This myth that if a child does something other than studies, his studies would go waste is completely wrong. Education never goes waste. But why so??????? Why parents can’t support their child in whatever field he wishes to go??

 You might have heard in news many times that people have been cheated by some conspirators when they paid them money to go abroad, girls suffering from sexual harassments and molestations when they try to become actress, models etc, people are kidnapped when they are found alone. Its all because parents don’t support their children. If parents would support their children in whatever things they want to do, children will never be unsuccessful in life.

When parents don’t support many people find wrong way to achieve their aim. Many people flee from their parents in order to live a live they want. And the results are often horrible. People develop a wrong feeling for their parents. Even parents also develop a wrong feeling for their children. They think their children are not enough civilized. But they don’t realize that they have made their children like that. Many parents force their children and put a lot of pressure on them to become whatever they want (whatever parents want).  As a result many children commit suicide…………… who to blame for this????

The movie “three idiots ‘’ is a perfect example of such cases. 

I just want to say that parents should support their children all the time. They Should Not Behave Selfishly.  If parents would support their children, they will not do anything wrong. They will not flee from them or commit suicide. They will never fall in trouble. No field is bad, dangerous or insulting. A PERSON CAN BE SUCCESSFUL ONLY IN THAT FIELD IN WHICH HE/SHE IS INTERESTED. NO ONE CAN BE SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE UNDER PRESSURE. Parents are the god of every child and if god would support them they will never fail in life. ALL THE PARENTS ARE REQUESTED TO HELP AND SUPPORT THEIR CHILDREN AT EVERY POINT IN LIFE.

HIDDEN CAMERAS - BEWARE !!!

How to Detect Hidden
Camera in Trial Room?
In front of the trial room take your mobile and make
sure that mobile can make calls……..
Then enter into the trial room, take your mobile and make a call…..
If u can’t make a call……!!!! There is a hidden camera……
This is due to the
interference of fiber optic cable during the signal transfer……
Please forward this to your friends to educate this issue to the public……To prevent our innocent ladies from HIDDEN CAMERA and Pinhole Cameras in Changing Rooms of Big Bazaar, Shoppers Stop?
A few days ago, I received this text message:
Please don’t use Trial room of BIG BAZAAR there are pinhole cameras to make
MMS of young girls.
So, please forward to all girls. Also forward to all boys who have sisters and girlfriends.
Don’t be shy in forwarding this message. Because its
about protecting the
integrity of all girls &
ladies.

TWO WAY MIRRORS - BEWARE !!!

HOW TO DETECT A 2-WAY MIRROR?
When we visit toilets,
bathrooms, hotel rooms, changing rooms, etc., How
many of you know for sure that the seemingly
ordinary mirror hanging on the wall is a real mirror, or
actually a 2-way mirror I.e., they can see you, but you
can’t see them. There have been many cases of people installing 2-way mirrors in
female changing rooms or bathroom or bedrooms.
It is very difficult to
positively identify the
surface by just looking at it.
So, how do we determine with any amount of certainty what type of Mirror we are looking at?
CONDUCT THIS SIMPLE TEST:
Place the tip of your
fingernail against the
reflective surface and if there is a GAP between your fingernail and the
image of the nail, then it is a GENUINE mirror.
However, if your fingernail DIRECTLY TOUCHES the
image of your nail, then BEWARE, IT IS A 2-WAY MIRROR! (There may be someone seeing you from
the other side). So
remember, every time you see a mirror, do the “fingernail test.” It doesn’t cost you anything. It is
simple to do. This is a really good thing
to do. The reason there is a gap on a real mirror, is
because the silver is on the back of the mirror UNDER
the glass. Whereas with a two-way
mirror, the silver is on the surface. Keep it in mind!
Make sure and check every time you enter in hotel rooms.
Share this with your sisters, wife, daughters, friends,
colleagues, etc.

SKY EYE !

The Sky Eye is just another tool used to measure sunlight. It contains a photo-resistor that changes resistance as the intensity of sunlight changes. This photo-resistor is connected in series with a standard resistor to form a voltage divider circuit so that the output voltage increases as the intensity of sunlight increases. A PVC cap provides some cosine correction to better approximate the radiant energy available. The PVC material as well as the shrink sleeve stretched over the PVC cap diminishes light energy and brings the light measuring range within comprehensive limits.

At this time the Sky Eye (in conjunction with a +5 volt supply) is designed to put out mill volt readings that correspond to sunlight power measurements expressed as Watts/m2. Sky Eye Readings may vary a little from Pyranometers readings but Sky Eye readings still provide a valuable approximation of radiant energy availability.

The electronic schematic for the sky eye is illustrated below, but remember the housing for the photo-resistor is also important.

If you need a more scientific approximation of insolation over the entire range of light intensity you may require a Pyranometers although I have found through my research that radiant energy readings below 30% have negligible value… HOWEVER this is something to keep in mind.

MOMS :)

She discriminates between me and my brother

She doesn’t love me

She forces me to do domestic works when I don’t have time

She slaps me

She never allows me to go alone anywhere

She all the time wants me to be with her, in short she doubts at me

She allows my brother to stay out late night but same is not for me

She doesn’t allows me to wear cloths of my choice

She purchases my sister everything but not to me

She cares for my brother/sister more than me

She doesn’t loves me because I am eldest of all my brothers and sisters

I hate her

I don’t care for her!!!!

Guys whatever statements I made above, many people have same feelings for their mothers.

They hate their moms because of these rubbish thoughts. Now read the following point of views too

She kept me (almost 1kg weight) for nine months in her womb. How difficult it was for her to carry weight everywhere.

She went through the pain which is equal to the fracturing of 27 bones simultaneously during delivery.

Many moms die while giving birth to their child.

She herself doesn’t take food when she knows that her child has not taken it.

She keeps on working the whole day and night. Asks for daughter’s help when she gets extremely tired.

She slaps me when I am wrong in order to correct me.

Whenever I fall in trouble, she is always there for me.

She loves me more than her own life. She cares a lot so she doesn’t allow me to go alone outside as she is worried for my safety.

She gives me thousand warnings when I go out.

She gives me decent cloths to wear. She gives me cloths according to environment so that no one can point me out.

She herself can remain hungry in order to give me enough food, clothes and facilities.

She can even die to protect my life.

How so ever weak or helpless she is, but when it comes on her child’s life she gets the power of durga, kali or parvati.

Guys whenever she doesn’t agree with us it doesn’t mean that she is against us. But it means that we are wrong. Ya I agree that many a time’s she is also wrong but that doesn’t mean she is our enemy. We just need to tell her why we want that thing and in what way it is right. Guys try to convince your mummies for what you all want. Don’t hate her for that. Don’t try to take revenge from her.

Many children don’t care for their moms. They leave them to some vriddhasharam.

Guys’ mothers are our god. In fact her place is higher than god. God can’t be with everyone at the same time so he created moms.

GUYS IF YOU ALL RESPECT, LOVE AND CARE FOR YOUR MOMS, YOU WILL DEFINITELY WIN THE WORLD 

HINDUSTAN OR RAPISTAN ??

Hindustan = Hindu sthaan

Rapistan = rape sthaan

Yes friends this is the situation of today’s India. Hindustan has turned into Rapistan. No woman is safe in India. Every day we hear the news of rapes, molestations and sexual harassments. How many ladies raise their voice against it???????? Very few……. How many culprits get punished?????????? Very few….. We heard the news of Delhi’s damini case. What punishment did the culprits get? Just 14 years JAIL!! And even small girls are not safe too. That five years old girl, what was her mistake?? She was not provoking anyone by her cloths!! Every day we come across such cases but how many of people raise their voice against it?? Even if someone is acting against it, how many people support them??

I want to raise a point here. I have seen mothers and teachers teaching their daughters and girl students not to wear short dresses. Why so???? Why a girl cannot wear cloths of her choice?? Just because these beasts would tease or rather rape her?? Why don’t they teach their sons and male students not to see girls with dirty eyes. Why don’t mothers teach their sons to respect girls?? If a girl wears short dresses she doesn’t becomes someone’s ‘’BAAP KA MAAL’’. According to our CONSTITUTION a woman has the right to wear cloths of her choice and NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO FORCE HER TO WEAR CLOTHS AGAINST HER CHOICE!! No one has the right to tease women. Even blinking eyes before women comes under the case of eve teasing.

I want to raise one more point here. The media persons presented damini’s case in a very spicy way to get enough publicity. They have provided enough knowledge to men caste about the way of sexual harassments. That’s why these cases have become more frequent. Even illiterate people have gained knowledge about this and they are misusing this knowledge. These cases are just a source of publicity for news channels whereas on the other hand whole life of the victim is destroyed.

Men should be taught to RESPECT women. If any such kind of news is telecasted on TV the parents immediately change the channel or switch off the TV. They say to their children that they are too young to listen to such news. Instead they should watch cartoons. But WHY??? If a 5 years old girl is not too young to be raped then why a 5 years old boy is too young to be taught about these things??

The people sitting on political seats and ruling India also blame the dressing sense of girls for these things. I don’t understand why small girls and aunties are raped who doesn’t entice anyone by their cloths.

These rotten thinking of people need to be changed. Parents should teach their sons to respect women. Strong and strict rules should be made to punish the culprits. Death penalty should be given to the rapists. And DIRTY MEN – MIND IT – A WOMEN TOLLERATES YOU NOT BECAUSE SHE IS WEAK.. DON’T RORCE HER TO BECOME DURGA, PARVATI OR KALI TO DESTROY YOU. RESPECT HER OR YOU WILL BE IN HELL!!!!!!!

FOR INDIANS SPECIALLY GIRLS !! Is This Statement Worth Accepting ????

FOR GIRLS…. READ MUST……

WHAT HAPPENED YESTERDAY IS NOT WORTH ACCEPTING………….

I was about to go to college. I was on the gate of my hostel. The two wardens were sitting there. I don’t know why and how they came to the hostel that day. I was wearing a capree and top. She stopped me. She said, ‘’is this your college dress??’’. I did not speak. She said, ‘’ will you go to college in this dress?’’. I said,’’Yes’’. She said,’’Do you wear such kind of dresses at home also’’? I said,’’Yes’’.she asked,’’will you go to market in such dresses’’?  I said, ‘’ yes’’.she said,’’I will ask your father about this and I will tell him not to allow you to wear such kind of dresses anywhere. There are many BOYS in the college and male teachers. If you wear such dresses it becomes embarrassing for the teachers. It looks vulgar. So from tomorrow I order you not to wear capree and any modern dress in college. And I will tell your father that HE SHOULD NOT ALLOW YOU TO WEAR SUCH DRESSES AT HOME ALSO. Because its  not good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was not wearing any vulgar dress like a short skirt or micromini or a ¼ divider pants. I was even not wearing a sleeveless or stripped top.!!!! It was a cool and smart dress. And it was not embarrassing. A dress becomes embarrassing when some body part which should not be visible is visible. None of my sensual body part was visible that time!!! I was perfectly dressed.

So friends tell me is this statement worth accepting??? In India we have right to live according to our will. So who the hell is she to control our lifestyle? Is she right?? Should I accept her order?? Comment your views!!

DOWRY SYSTEM - SELLING OF MEN OR KILLING WOMEN !

Dowry system is indeed a very serious problem in today’s era. Its still alive in the mind and heart of almost all the people. Even rich and high class society follow dowry system.. Rich people give dowry with their own consent and happiness and poor people are forced to give dowry. Every day many innocent women are killed because of this dowry system. Poor people are unable to give dowry so many times many crimes are done by the family of bridegrooms. They kill the girls….. only  cases of poor people  come into our notice because accidents and crimes take place in those areas only. Rich people are able to pay dowry so nothing happens with their daughters. So there are no murder cases in the rich class. Hence we think that there is no dowry system in rich class people.. its wrong. Dowry system exists everywhere…

Once a man in my neighborhood was searching for a girl for a girl for his son. I asked him which type of girl he wanted. He said he wanted an engineer girl. So I asked him how much dowry will he pay to the girl since she will be an engineer. He at once got shocked and said why should he pay the dowry when he is the boy’s father. This poor mentality of people support dowry system.

In my opinion dowry system means selling of boys. See.. if the boy is well educated and doing a good job then they demand more money. If the boy is not doing good job or illiterate they demand for less money. Hence they take money and give their sons. This situation is same as a shopkeeper who demands more money for a good quality product and less money for bad quality product.

Today girls stand on their own feet. They are independent. Most of them don’t need any economical help from any one. So why they should pay dowry in order to get a man in their life????? Don’t men need women?? Can a man survive without a woman (wife)??? So why he demands for money when he himself can’t live without a life partner??? Why not men pay dowry??

 So friends I want to say that dowry system should be completely finished… we all need to take small small steps in order to bring a big change.. Most of the women don’t raise their voice against dowry. They think that they will be insulted and no one will marry them after that. But why to fear?? What to fear of?? We just need to be bold. Just think if every woman will raise her voice against dowry, then there will be a revolution. They will obviously get a good life partner because no one can live single whole life… so they need not to fear that they will not get a life partner if they stand against dowry!!! There are many punishments for dowry seekers.  So friends encourage everyone and raise your voice against dowry!!J J

ACID ATTACKS !!

Burnt face, pain, lost personality, feeling of inferiority, taunts of common people.. can you tolerate this?? If you can then for how much time?? Yes you all are thinking right!! I am talking about acid attacks………….

I want to raise a question. Why acid attacks?? Why you destroy the beautiful faces of women? What bad have they done to you??? Are you jealous of their success?? Or are your failures unbearable to you?? Yes men community!! I am talking to you all!!

If you can’t win a woman by positive means, if you can’t defeat her in any field, will you throw acids on them?? Have you lost your manliness??? Think what will happen if anyone throws acid on your mother or sister?? Women are born to be respected. If you throw acids on women I must say you are not a man. Real man respect and protect women.

I don’t understand why these acids are available at very- very low cost at every drug shop. Why doesn’t government make any rule against it?? Or do they too support acid attacks??

Acid attacks are stain on women’s dignity.

Listen you all acid attackers if you think you can discourage, demolish and kill women through acid attacks, you are completely wrong. You can’t kill the self confidence, pride and dignity of a woman.

Women are meant to be worshipped and not to be attacked. You all will definitely have to pay one day for what you are doing now.

You all need a mother, a sister, a lover, a wife. Then why you harm others mother, sister, lover and wives??

Learn to respect women!!